@MomofJandL It wasnt clear what you meant which is why I asked before I responded.
Your statement, “You and your white husband probably drive cars that do not attract attention, and drive in a way that does not attract attention”, could also mean luxury cars. We actually are stopped more when we are in luxury cars, which some would say attract attention. So yes, sometimes depending where we are going , we will take one car over another because we know we with either increase or decrease our chances of being stopped.