Am I looking in to this to much?

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<p>Okay, I will try to keep this short.</p>

<p>Over the summer, I started hanging out with a guy. We would spend probably 10+ hours a week together at the archery range or just hanging out. We would do a lot of talking about life and such while we were at the range too.</p>

<p>Now he is at college at home in california and I am away in colorado. He had asked me to call him once i was completely settled in, so I called him on the third day of school. Long story short, he asks me where my roommate is and why werent hanging out or something. I told him that she was at a frat party and he asked me “to please not to go to those” (not that I want to, Im not big in to parties and the frat parties always have alcohol involved too). We have talked on the phone a couple times since.</p>

<p>Was he just being brotherly or a good friend? Or could it possibly be more? I dont want to ask him any more about it because I have yet to make any friends here (everyone seems to have brought their high school friends with them to school) and he is one of the few people I can call. I dont want to mess that up. </p>

<p>Thank you!</p>

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<p>He’s probably just being a good friend. But you won’t know for sure unless you ask.</p>

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<p>It all depends on your situation. And, more importantly, why he said that. Which you won’t know unless you ask him yourself. For instance, I would say that for one of two reasons: 1) I don’t want a girl I’m very interested in to get drunk and hook up with some frat boy or 2) I’m looking out for the girl as a friend and wouldn’t want her to hook up with some frat boy and regret it later. </p>

<p>Now, if you’re interested in him, by all means, ask him! If you’re not interested in him at all beyond being friends, then I don’t see the point in you caring anyway.</p>