Am I wrong for reporting my roommate for letting her friend who’s on academic suspicion live in our room for 4 days. So boom I was having a good time playing games with my friends and at 2:00 in the morning I see a girl with a big suitcase and a palate. I was cool for just one night even if she never asked me how I felt about the situation but I noticed that eve time I came in the girl was there so I felt I need to report especially when I know their cracking down on a lot of people for overnight guest and I’m not going down for anyone. So I told and now my roommate is becoming hostile and aggressive with me even though it’s her fault because I text her telling her how I felt about the situation and the legal concerns but she evaded them by saying my friend can stay a couple more nights if she wants now I’m scared to sleep in my room. I told the ra everything and provided stone cold evidence like pics and texts. But I have to wait and deal with it alone.
You should have spoken with your roommate first. So yes, you’re wrong.
And your roommate should have asked you first. So she’s also wrong
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Most dorms allow overnight guests, some limit the amount of nights. I think you are both wrong, she should’ve asked you, you should’ve talked before reporting her. My daughter had a friend freshman year who had significant roommate issues, so she spent a lot of nights on a futon in my daughter’s room. The difference was her roommate was 100% okay with it.
Unless we misunderstand how you proceeded, this appears to be a reasonable assessment of the situation.
Completely agree with everyone here. Your roommate and the “guest” should be adult enough to communicate with you. And you likewise need to be an adult and communicate with your roommate. Unfortunately, both made mistakes and should try to work this out. May be difficult, but that’s what grownups do. We ought to learn from our mistakes, deal with the situation, and move on.