<p>I used to live with two men & they may have first thought I was going to do the cooking & cleaning.
:rolleyes:
That didn’t last long as I have no talent for the latter & was only marginally interested in the former at the time.
My boyfriend ( who was one of the men)worked it out by hiring an ex girlfriend to do the heavy cleaning, and so our room ( which was the entire top floor), wouldn’t become one big laundry pile, he encouraged me to do laundry together including putting it away, which helped a great deal.
He also was a chef, and didn’t mind doing the cooking & the other roommate cleaned the kitchen.</p>
<p>Having regular work parties may help for people in group living situations.</p>