<p>I redshirted 2 kids - a Sept. girl who would not have been kindergarten eligible in about 30 states (our state had a Dec cutoff at that point, but has changed it) and a June boy who was no developmentally ready for K at 5. I have no regrets, but sometimes the questions and demands to justify our decisions from other parents are rather surprising. I sought professional advise - and I took it. We all try to do what is best for our individual children, right?</p>