<p>"What have I said about Daisy Colman that is unfavorable? That she is the one who gave the 13 year old rum, that she is the one who got the girl to sneak out at 1am to go a party with highschool seniors? Thats not speculation- those are details in her version of events.</p>
<p>Regarding Melinda Coleman- thats not speculation either. The 13 year old was sleeping over at her house and was in her custody. She did a negligent job of supervision and the girl was assaulted. Dont you think its possible there might be a civil suit against Coleman from the girls family? "</p>
<p>Whatever happened before has zero relevance to the case, and what the ‘good citizens’ of Maryville are arguing is somehow because the girls had been drinking, the mom hadn’t supervised them, that the girl ‘deserved it’, which is exactly the same thing the trash in Steubenville argued, that because the girl was drunk out her mind, and went with the boys, that it wasn’t rape because what she did led to her downfall, and that is quite frankly sickening.</p>
<p>Here is what everyone, including the lawyers, agree to as far as I can tell:</p>
<p>1)the girls had been drinking, and continued to drink, and BAC done later indicated she was severely intoxicated at the time of the incident(.18 projected if I remember correctly, which is getting near alchohol poisoning).</p>
<p>2)The boy had sex with her when she was so drunk.</p>
<p>From what seems to be the prevailing information out there, that level of drunkeness is enough under Missouri law to charge the boy with rape because the girl could not consent. One thing for those who say “we don’t know what her alcohol was”, metabolizing alcohol is a known property, for a girl her size, they know how fast alcohol is metabolized, so they can figure out how drunk she was x hours before the BAC was done. </p>
<p>Those are facts, based in evidence if what I read was right, so what the family said is irrelevent, or even 200 witnesses or whatever. If there was that kind of evidence, physical evidence, they don’t even need the witnesseses, if the boy had sex with her and she was that drunk, he is basically guilty, because if those levels are correct, she was drunk beyond being able to consent (if the ‘facts’ are wrong, then that would come out at trial). </p>
<p>The town in criticizing the mom and criticizing the girl, while defending the boy, is basically saying she was a s*** who deserved what she got, which is what so many in Steubenville said, it is knee jerk reaction when defending a ‘prominent’ or ‘popular’ kid, usually jocks, when crap like this happen…it is no different than in rape cases where the defense would ask about the victims sex life, what she was wearing that day, etc, to show how she was ‘asking for it’…the girl was stupid getting drunk like that, I won’t argue that, but the law doesn’t say that rape only happens if a guy pulls a knife on a woman dressed in a moo moo, it says it is rape if the woman couldn’t consent. </p>
<p>If the physical facts I cited are in act true, which they seem to be, that alone is grounds for rape, in that the BAC level alone can show that the girl was out of it. Among other things, a young person that age is going to be a lot more incapacitated than an adult that age with a given BAC (had more than a bit of experience with that being on a rescue squad that dealt with underage drinking). </p>
<p>Whatever the mother did or didn’t do, whatever the girl drank, the town is dead wrong when they blame either the girl or her mother, if the boy had sex with a girl that drunk, if those figures are true, nothing changes the fact that he committed a crime…and it raises question why the DA would drop the case in the first place.</p>
<p>I also have read where people in the town claim the boy is being pilloried because he comes from a prominent family. Given the reality of how much money and prominence buy someone who is accused of a crime, that is a joke, and given the kind of power well off families have over elected officials like DA’s, that quite frankly is a joke in my opinion. I don’t care personally if people want to criticize the mother or daughter for being stupid, but what they are doing is blaming them, rather than the boy who was in control of himself (if he was so drunk he was not cognizant, he couldn’t have had sex with her) and took advantage of someone too drunk to say yes. It would be no different then if he had slipped her a date rape drug, if the facts of the alcohol level are true as I have seen reported, then at the very least they have proof enough for trial IMO. </p>
<p>People are not convicting the boy of anything, he is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law, but the problem here is the DA seems to have made sure that he never will face trial for his actions. If he is innocent of the crime, the trial would figure that out, the fact that the DA didn’t prosecute doesn’t make him innocent, and worse for him, it leaves him with a cloud his families money will never clear, he is legally innocent at this point, but dodging a trial, dodging the facts being judged in a court, means he is going to be suspect in many people’s eyes, other than maybe the good citizens of Maryville with their “boys will be boys” attitude. If anything, they shouldn’t be calling the girl white trash, as many have done, they should be pushing that it go to trial so the facts are brought out into the open and he is judged by a jury, cause right now all you have is a mess that will reverberate I suspect.</p>