I don’t think Calicash means going back to what I did in my 20’s. I saw 20 in the rear view mirror a long time ago. I do think that diets have to be individualized. The foods that fill my sister up don’t fill me up and vice versa. She’s right that I had to find what works for me and do that.
I don’t have a 500 calorie meal plan, but I do have ~1,000-1400 calories/day plans. How much I eat depends on how hungry I am (which varies depending on how active a day I’m having). A typical day may look like this:
Breakfast: A light English muffin (just thinner than the regular size, not lighter due to fake ingredients) with a tsp of jam and a tsp of natural peanut butter, coffee with a Tbsp of real half and half, and a piece of fruit.
Midmorning snack: A piece of fruit and 3 oz. of raw carrots and a glass of water.
Lunch: 2-3 oz of lean meat, chicken, or fish, steamed veggies, and a starch (baked potato or corn, etc.), and salad with lemon juice and a touch of salt (from olives or capers). Sometimes I add a couple chopped nuts, and/or raisins, or a couple chunks of avocado – something to spice the veggies up a little. I drink water with lunch and dinner.
Afternoon snack: Fresh fruit and a plate of raw veggies (sometimes with a Tbsp of peppercorn ranch dressing) and a glass of water.
Dinner: Similar to lunch. Once in awhile I’ll have a small hamburger on a lite English muffin with baked fries (if all we have are the frozen then I may eat 4 or 5 of them) and a salad, or half a hot dog on a roll with a Tbsp of baken beans, a vegetable salad, and a green vegetable (baked brussel sprouts, peas, or steamed broccoli)
Evening Snack: Fresh fruit, plate of veggies, half an English muffin, an ounce or 2 of sharp (Italian) cheese, or a small bowl of raisin bran with whole milk, or a salad with lots of raw veggies and a tbsp of light vinegar based homemade dressing
Dessert: 2 or 3 Hershey’s kisses, or a scoop of ice cream with a Tbsp of chocolate syrup, or a cookie, or a bowl of fresh fruit (a mix of oranges, apples, kiwis, berries, bananas, a few raisins, and a couple of chopped walnuts.)
Parties can be handled if you’re careful. I start the day with a light breakfast and usually eat a piece of fruit and 3 oz of raw carrots before I go so I’m not starving. Over the Memorial Day weekend I went to one where there were several types of homemade salad (I took a Tbsp of each), baked beans with horseradish (I ate 2 Tbsp), baked mac and cheese (I took a tsp just to taste), hamburgers (I ate half of one without the roll), and 2 kinds of cake, fudge, oatmeal apple bars, and fresh berries (I ate a bite of my husband’s cake, a quarter inch slice of the fudge, a bite of my sister’s oatmeal bar, and a bowl of berries). It was all really good. I only drink water when I’m out so I can enjoy more of the food. I was hungry later in the evening. When that happens I add another small meal – I usually have a couple ounces of protein (a tsp of peanut butter on a light English muffin or a couple ounces of grilled chicken), a piece of fruit, and maybe an ounce of hard cheese with a vegetable salad. I wouldn’t be able to do a 500 calorie day, although sometimes I have to make an effort to eat 1,000 (the minimum the MyFitnessPal app allows). I average 1200 calories/day (400 fewer than I was eating), so I’m losing weight, but I don’t feel like I’m on a diet. I wish you all a lot of luck.