<p>I have her in one of my history classes this semester and last semester. She added me on facebook over the summer, but I have been scared to approach her just in case she is not interested because wouldn’t that make the rest of the semester awkward?</p>
<p>Dude just go up to her and say hey what’s up or ask her about hw or something in common. Gauge interest from there, you don’t have to ask her out or do anything to make it awkward the first time you talk to her. Just be friendly and nothing can go wrong and if she seems interested pursue her but don’t wait to long from friend to romantic interest phase could get stuck in the friendzone lol. You should deff approach her though cause not doing it deff means nothing will happen </p>
<p>^^^ This. You won’t know if she’s interested until you speak to her. And even if she isn’t interested, it’ll be okay cause at least you gave it a shot. But don’t approach her when she looks like she’s in a bad mood or busy. Someone did that to me last week and I wasn’t amused. =/</p>
<p>Overthinking everything will kill your social life. Most situations where you might ask someone out could have the potential for awkwardness. It’s only awkward if she says yes and you go out and it doesn’t work out later, but by then the quarter/semester will be over (maybe).</p>
<p>The worst-case scenario is she says no. Even that is an improvement over now because you have zero chance if you do not ask. Second, if she says no, you can stop worrying about it.</p>
<p>Besides, she might say yes. </p>
<p>@violet1996 – Even the exception can prove the rule, you probably would have still said yes if his timing sucked but you were interested, but your advice is sound.</p>
<p>I would start slow.
First ask her about homework via facebook or after class.
Then maybe see if she would like to do homework together.
Maybe after that get something to eat.
Then after a few more homework sessions see if she wants to go to a campus activity.</p>
<p>Yeah, as he said, just ask her if she wants to study together for one of the exams.</p>
<p>I’m just going to approach her after class and talk about the paper that is due and then if she wants to get lunch or something</p>
<p>Cool beans good luck =)</p>
<p>@Herrkatze</p>
<p>It’s important tht if she goes to get lunch with you that you start talking about stuff other than the paper. Talk about her, girls love to talk so ask how she’s doing what she’s involved in and stuff like that and then ask her if she wants to do something on the weekend. Otherwise you’ll just be a homework buddy.,</p>
<p>Don’t ask her out while you are still going out to get lunch. Wait a few days.</p>
<p>I think it’s important to realize that most girls won’t judge you if they reject you. In fact they will likely have a lot of respect for you having the courage to go up and talk to them. They are well aware of the fact that it’s not an easy thing for a guy to do. Also realize that this girl is likely used to guys asking her out and understands that that’s what guys do. We ask girls out. It’s human nature, and a completely acceptable social practice.</p>
<p>Honestly, the worst thing to do is to do nothing. If she knows you like her (even a little bit), and you don’t do anything, she will think you are too shy and not confident with yourself, or that you are aloof/stuck up.</p>
<p>agree with @jimmyboy23 . (Not saying this as a bad thing at all) Girls love to talk, and giving them the chance to talk about what they want to talk about first will show just how considerate you can be. Even if you are a loquacious person…wait. Later on the stream will level out and you will find that that you both contribute evenly to the conversation.</p>