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<p>My suggestion to Asian high school students is that if they feel suspicious of the process, they are free to decline self-identification. Otherwise, they should feel free to apply wherever they want.</p>
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<p>Why discuss with me if you think I’m whining? In fact, since you believe that I’m just in a “phase,” why discuss with me at all? According to your belief, eventually one day I’ll be saying everything you’re saying to the next generation except I’ll have more credibility since I can say “I used to be like you.”</p>
<p>I don’t appreciate your Catch-22s. You don’t have to agree with me, but that doesn’t give you a right to say damned if you do, damned if you don’t. If I fit the stereotype of a trophy hunting Asian who didn’t get accepted everywhere and complained about it, I’d be a “whiner.” But I don’t fit that stereotype; I “zigged” and ended up with a 100% acceptance rate and a happy end to my senior year. I even have “skin in the game” as I legally changed my surname. Still a “whiner” according to Hunt.</p>
<p>Hey, if you feel that way, there’s an easy solution: don’t reply to my posts. Why waste time talking to a whiner? Go out and help the Asian high schoolers in your community and educate them about the process.</p>