<p>Many on CC think a college admit as some sort of entitlement- a reward for hs performance. IMO, it’s a little different- a kid’s hs performance is an indicator of the chances for success (academically and in terms of engagement) at that school. </p>
<p>I see need-based aid, from a “meet full need” school, as a gift (and one we are sincerely grateful for.) At a school that plays fast and loose with aid (eg, offering more to the kids they want most, not offering equal packages to all with a certain need,) it can be a gift- and an incentive to matriculate. </p>
<p>IMO, same for merit money. Not an entitlement; no one owes it to you. An incentive.</p>