Are you willing to pay or loan for the expensive ivy or top 20 schools instead of cheap state Univ.?

I have long avoided these financial discussions for this very reason – but I will chime in to say that I wish @blossom 's quote above could be auto-posted at the top of every one of these common threads.

“Dumb”, “Foolish”, “Stupid”, use of these terms helps no one and angers many.