@garland. I’ve said this before but forty nine years ago I remember going to a restaurant with my parents and the waiter was clearly gay ( even as an eight year old I saw him as very feminine ). My mother turned to me my father and said “can you believe that people think people choose to be gay” amd then when I asked 1) what gay meant and 2) what she meant about not choosing to be gay”.they told in this discussion my parents gave me a “there’s nothing wrong with it and people who don’t think that are wrong” message. It was only years later that I understood that this was not a common belief at the time.