My point - and I’ll differ from @Mwfan1921 - I think sports alone is a great EC to get you, even into a top engineering school. Or sports at a high level and something else. Relevant ECs are not needed. The commitment OPs son would have to make, like marching band and even more so, shows a dedication that most clubs cannot touch.
But we don’t even know OPs academic profile but going to Florida Tech instead of Ga Tech instead of Ga Texh is not a death sentence, no different than we have a bunch of MBAs at my place working for a W Georgia undergraduate or a Harvard Law working for a Fairleigh Dickinson undergrad.
Too many create these - this school assures and this doesn’t. Yes statistically some outperform but ultimately people make their mark far more than their schools. If one is a stud at name your school with the characteristics needed in society, they have a great chance of succeeding. The converse goes for a top school grad if they don’t have those characteristics.
When you look at school outcomes in some majors, it’s interesting that whether it’s Michigan or Ohio state or UConn, reported success rates and salaries are quite similar. Even an IU Kelley, which we tout here, has very low salaries - in the 50s - dependent upon the geography placed.
My point all along has been why can’t OP’s student try that hardest curriculum. If it doesn’t work and they end up at WPI instead or George Mason instead of Georgia Tech, they’ll have experienced the high school life, hopefully, that most of us could only dream of and will have established lifelong ties. Heck, they might not even end up in engineering - that happens too even to those where it seems early on it’s the only possibility.
Just a fascinating topic and no doubt ten parents might steer their kids ten different ways.
My son had a ‘weird’ hobby. He was a plane spotter. Loved to go to the airport with his high end camera and take pics of planes taking off and landing. Used to send into these websites and get published - in addition to his own. The pro was he loved it and we had to stop at every small commercial airport we drive past, especially if a plane with a unique livery was coming in. Whether Tri cities TN or St Martin, I’ve spent countless hours. To me, he was avoiding making friendships. But it was his passion so we supported.
And I imagine most parents would do the same in this situation, if that’s what the athlete wanted. On the other hand, maybe a 14 year old doesn’t have the foresight to look many years out and possible impact.
Since it’s my thread :), I’ll simply end with - I still don’t understand why that ‘commitment’ to the sport decision has to be made so many years early. If it means Pre Calc instead of AB/BC, not a huge deal (in my mind).
But I’m enjoying reading the responses. And hopefully learning.