Assault/Harassment thread

“We’re clearly soldiers in petticoats
And dauntless crusaders for women’s votes
Though we adore men individually
We agree that as a group they’re rather stupid.”

Yup. Like OHMom, I would not welcome any butt grabbing from any celebrity no matter how much I adored that celebrity.

I am annoyed if anyone touches me without my permission, even if he’s handsome—being good-looking does not give license to touch with impunity without permission. Ick!

Now that several videos of Rose are circulating on Twitter I’m finding hard to believe that CBS News didn’t know. He has said and done some pretty things that would raise your eyebrows.

A woman in Washington State was badly beaten after confronting a man exposing and fondling himself outside of a grocery store. She will need facial reconstruction surgery. The man is 19 years old and has been arrested.
Articles about this: http://www.kiro7.com/news/local/mother-attacked-after-confronting-man-exposing-himself-near-safeway/649957318
http://www.kiro7.com/news/local/mother-attacked-after-confronting-man-exposing-himself-near-safeway/649957318 and https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/woman-brutally-beaten-after-confronting-man-fondling-himself-in-public_us_5a146c56e4b025f8e9320369

Very scary

@Snowball City That is horrific.

Unfortunately, violence is always a risk when confronting anyone. I’m sorry this woman was badly hurt.

The co-founder of Pixar is taking a 6 month sabbatical "after unspecified “missteps” that made some staffers feel “disrespected or uncomfortable.”

Hmmmmmm. He goes on to talk about regretting potentially unwanted hugs, etc.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/21/business/media/john-lasseter-pixar-disney-leave.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&clickSource=story-heading&module=first-column-region&region=top-news&WT.nav=top-news&_r=0

A most excellent article in the liberal magazine “The Atlantic”:

http://www.tmz.com/2017/11/22/texas-congressman-joe-barton-nude-sexting-twitter/

If these are pictures sent to women he is dating and they had no problem with it, and aren’t minors, I don’t think he should resign. I would just like to know what goes through these people’s minds when deciding to send these kinds of pictures. I’m not a prude, by any stretch of the imagination, but I just don’t get this type of behavior.

I’m sorry, he looks disgusting, leave that stuff to the young folk. Mind you I tell my kids not to do it but my single friends tell me guys love to send d**k pics, even at our age. , ugh!

That is just gross!! That can’t be unseen. Yuck. But if it was consensual - who cares.

Someone once said, “what is written with a pen cannot be cut out with an ax”! Anything that is put into a tangible media can be copied and spread around.

Eek! I posted the wrong link. Didn’t mean to post one with pictures. Meant to post this one. https://www.texastribune.org/2017/11/22/us-rep-joe-barton-deciding-how-respond-after-graphic-photo-circulates-/

Maybe a mod can delete that other link. No one should be subjected to that.

Men are aroused visually. So is that why they like to send around pictures of their stuff? Do they think it excites women? It really does absolutely nothing for me. YMMV.

This is totally out of control. Hard to believe this is the best we can do as far as leadership is concerned. What an absolute clown.

Though I am wondering how TMZ got a hold of that text and photo. His statement makes it sound like this was a woman he was seeing while his divorce was pending. In that case it was a private communication that should not be published without consent of one of the parties.

I can think of a zillion reasons why I wouldn’t want to vote for Joe Barton, but who cares what he did consensually with other adults? As I understand it he didn’t send any of his nude photos unsolicited to anyone. It seems that these photos were posted publicly without his permission. He seems like a victim here, not a perpetrator.

Can’t believe I’m defending him, but fair is fair.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/powerpost/congressman-told-woman-he-would-report-her-to-capitol-police-if-she-exposed-his-secret-sex-life/2017/11/22/e3345862-cf10-11e7-a1a3-0d1e45a6de3d_story.html?hpid=hp_no-name_no-name%3Apage%2Fbreaking-news-bar&tidr=a_breakingnews&utm_term=.708c76131c68

One wouid think he’d want to leave this alone and put it behind him.

Plus, if he was so worried these pics would get out, possibly ruining his career. - maybe he shouldn’t have sent them in the first place.

I find the threatening of the women much more troubling than the pictures/texts:

@emilybee I agree about the threats being more troubling.

And, seriously, do men think that women enjoy seeing these pics? Seriously? I remember years ago we had a similar discussion here on CC when Anthony Weiner was doing the same thing. Who really wants to see that?!

Men get off on visual stimuli. I think they assume that women do the same.

I say it’s about domination. Men who send this type of picture, men who insist on showing what women have no interest in seeing, are demonstrating that they are able to not care what the women who are sent the pictures want to see-- or, as in the case of Weinstein, Louis CK and Charlie Rose, what the women right there want to see.

I don’t believe men who send this type of picture are sending it because they think women want to see it. I think they’re sending it because they want to send it.

Men, like Weiner and this Congressman don’t seem to realize that these photos are turn offs not turn ons. They make themselves look absolutely ridiculous and creepy.