This definitely may be part of it. He was on ADD medication in HS and part of college and admitted that it helped him, but he didnt like the way it made him feel. I don’t think he takes it currently.
He seems to do everything at the last minute. A deadline is needed to get anything done. Even if it is laundry - if he says, I will do laundry on Mondays, then Monday night he will be doing laundry.
According to one parent who talked to him, he was interested in the idea and it doesn’t appear as tho it had occurred to him. I guess getting Dx is only important in that it could change the current treatment for the depression and the approach the family takes to helping him launch. It’s not helpful to say, “Get a job by September” if his potential neurodiversity is making that impossible to do without other supports.