<p>I have no advice, but best of luck Yankster!</p>
<p>I am only friends with one of my exes, and like kenzie1992 said, we had to become friends a while after we broke up. In our case, there were a lot of emotions surrounding our break up and it was only when he was dating someone else (I originally broke up with him) that we were able to become friends again. To this day, we aren’t super close, but the worst part of breaking up was that I felt like I was losing my best friend, and so it’s nice to be friends again.</p>
<p>The less time you had feelings for him/her, the easier it is to ease back into being friends.</p>
<p>Very possible and something I tell my friends to do all the time. Obviously it varies from couple to couple and hinges on how exactly the relationship ended. If she cheated on you then it’s probably best you just don’t talk to her anymore. Don’t go out of YOUR way to avoid her, but don’t invite her to events or make her a priority. If you dated for a while, had fun and enjoyed each other and then the feelings just disappeared after a while, there’s no reason you can’t be friends. It might take time, but there are a lot of good memories there that shouldn’t be thrown away.</p>