<p>When my son goes away for the weekend, I always call the parents to thank them for the invitation (same as making sure they will be there, but less obvious for my son’s sake). He is almost 19, has committed to a school next year to play Div. I lax, and knows that just one bad judgement call could jeopardize all that he has worked so hard to accomplish. It is hard, but I am trying to give him more slack then before. So far, so good.
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