best friend .. replaced me and now ignores me like hell

College Life
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<p>so i just into a new college last july … i met a girl… we became best friends …lets call her jennie… i was friends with 4 more guys … and jennie was with one other girl … so jennie and i desided one day … lets create a group so i created a group on whatapp … yes me … and introduced every1 … we all are in the same class … but it was jennie and me who were friends before …</p>

<p>at clg as well as on whatapp group … jennie and me were always talking craking jokes … she use to care for me …</p>

<p>we t=use to talk a lot on personal msging as well … she always use to ask for me … like where am i …i miss yew stuff </p>

<p>suddenly … around 15 oct. i felt like she was ignoring me… in clg … like jennie didnt use to gave attention to my words … i use to call her … i thought maybe she ignored it to … but on whatapp group she was always worried … and asking about me …</p>

<p>so around 6 novmeber .i started ignoring her … her didnt replied to her msges … she asked me like 20 times r yew angry with me … i said no … we didnt communicate for like 5 days … and on 12th novmeber she cried … in class… i felt bad … we patched up…</p>

<p>but after 24 hours … everything changed … she ignored me like hell like … didnt replied to mah msges on whatpp group … wwhen i asked her particularly … like jenny what r yew doing … whatapp jenny where r yew …</p>

<p>at clg … it was all changed …and at the same time … she replaced me with a guy in our group …and she started doing the same things she use to do with me … like asking fr him in the group… clg me alaways talking abt him. giving him importance … and i became last for her … it really … killed me from inside … coz i didnt knew wht happened…</p>

<p>then we started having fights , we patch up… like 3-4 times… coz i didnt liked it … the ignorance …</p>

<p>and she nvr admitted she was changed … still she is like hey we r best friends …</p>

<p>let talk about PRESENT DAY … she is so close with that guy … we often talk … and whever we do . it feels like she is doing a favour … her replies are not the same …
ignores the ■■■■ out of me in clg … and notice every single detail abt tht guy …and i got a makeover … didnt said a word abt it …</p>

<p>i have to go to clg everyday … and i seriously dnt knw how to deal with his …:/</p>

<p>its killiing me from inside … please helpppp me …~~~~~ and there is so much more to the story … …</p>

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<p>one of my friends stopped talking to me. it killed me from the inside too. there was a really bad feeling all the time, could last hours on end, came back nearly daily, was always about how he stopped being my friend and why. i was really messed up over it. this went on for 5 months until he began to talk to me again (but only about tv and only if i continued to watch the list of shows he emailed me) now it’s not killing me anymore from the inside but a lot of my free time is now spent watching tv. sorry this is happening and has happened to you, it’s not right :(</p>

<p>i tried for a long time to find a way to deal with it or some remedy that would make it hurt less but nothing really worked. i seriously didn’t know how to deal with it either and i still don’t, besides to avoid it by trying to be a better friend so it doesn’t happen again.</p>

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<p>but it still hurts a lot … seeing him care for him a lot … and nthing for me …</p>

<p>we never talk now … i have stopped msging on the whatapp group … that was created by me …:.&lt;/p>

<p>i tried diverting mah mind … i joined guitar classes … fr sme time i feel good …</p>

<p>but next day i enter college … see her and everything … jst comes back to me …</p>

<p>and i have to deal with this everydday … i seriously dont know what to do …</p>

<p>other girl in my group … asked me why you are not coming to clg …</p>

<p>i replied i dnt like it … and jenny and me are nt gud friends anymore…</p>

<p>the she said … dude ppl change … jst move on . and dnt run from it </p>

<p>and i was like … whaa ddaaa faa ,</p>

<p>i feel like she used me … when she had no1 … i was her best buddy … the day she got some1 … it took her 6 days to replace me , </p>

<p>i dnt knw how to deal with this … it hurts preety bad … :confused: </p>

<p>any suggestionss… please … :/</p>