<p>D does not have to attend an Ivy, but she’s already been told by Ivy coaches that she will be recruited by them, so it’s not like we’re putting undue pressure on her to gain admission to the reachiest schools. If you can have something great that so many others want too, why not? But there are 6 or 7 non-Ivies on her list too, including some D 3 schools.</p>