<p>Coaches see out of their own set of glasses. They live sports and that is what they tend to remember. I know at my son’s prep school, there have been some marvelously successful alums who have gone on to great schools, fantastic lives, but the ones the old football coach remembers are the ones who went on to sports in college and even beyond. The guy grimaces every time my son comes up as he went on to a theatre program.</p>