<p>That’s sad to know, but as warblersrule said, there are lots of schools in the country that are great for LGBT. That said, there are some that are less “friendly” toward it, even if they are on the whole friendly. To that end, there are two rules of thumb to guide you: 1) if it’s a religious university, it’s probably not going to be as friendly toward LGBT people (might not be “unfriendly” but usually not as friendly as others), and 2) if it’s in the South, there’s a good chance that it might not be, as the Northeast and the West tend to be the more liberal and LGBT-friendly places. This again doesn’t mean that places in the South are unfriendly (though many are), just that they tend to be less so toward LGBT people.</p>
<p>And of course there are plenty of colleges that break away from this - some in the South are perfectly friendly, and some in the Northeast or West are unfriendly. If you’re trying to maximize that, it’s less likely to be in the South or at a religious school. You also mention pot and partying, and the former is much less likely to be common at a religious or southern school; the latter is less common at a religious school, unsurprisingly. (Princeton Review does [url=<a href=“http://www.glueamerica.org/2011/08/princeton-review-ranks-top-15-most-lgbt.html]surveys[/url”>http://www.glueamerica.org/2011/08/princeton-review-ranks-top-15-most-lgbt.html]surveys[/url</a>] of schools to see which are the most/least friendly toward LGBT, and unsurprisingly many religious/southern schools dominate the ‘least’ list, while Northeast/West schools dominate the ‘most’ list.)</p>
<p>I can’t speak to UT-Austin, so I’ll defer to the above, as it may be great for LGBT. I personally would prefer UConn to UNC, UVA, or UT, simply because the area is likely to be more LGBT-friendly - if you go off campus, you’re more likely not to encounter homophobia in the Northeast than in the South. When I looked at the other options, my first instinct was that Barnard is great for it. But I have no reason to believe that - other than the fact that it’s women’s college, is in NYC, and is one of the Seven Sisters (at least two of which I’ve heard are great if you’re lesbian).</p>
<p>That said, you would definitely find what you’re looking for at Michigan, since my perception is that it’s pretty liberal. I’d have reservations about Boston College, Vanderbilt, and Georgetown, but I could be wrong on those. And though some may get mad at me for this, but I’d also have reservations about Duke and UNC-Chapel Hill. Even if they themselves are LGBT-friendly, I’m guessing the areas around them are less so. (Granted, I’ve only spent time in the Winston-Salem and Greensboro areas of NC.) The rest of the options should be at least decent.</p>
<p>(I’m a gay male, by the way, so these are just my perceptions of where I’d go/not go if I wanted a friendly environment.)</p>