<p>I have a really good friend and we have pretty much the same morals but I’m a little afraid that if we live together, our friendship might not be as strong. It might be strong but like right now, when we see each other on the weekends or run into each other on campus, both of us are excited to see each other. But i don’t want this to wear away, so is it better to keep the distance and live independently? Also, one or two of their other friends, whom I’m not too close with but still talk to are living with us. One for sure. Don’t about the other.</p>
<p>I also have diff. habits than most people and get anxiety if people start stuff with me and it’s stressful so I don’t know what to do.</p>
<p>living alone > *. tried living with 3 other roommates for a year, terrible experience, ended up hating one and having no respect at all for the 2 other guys. conflict is inevitable when you live with people.</p>
<p>I thought about rooming with two other people in school, but I decided against it because I felt that I would feel more inclined to stay within my comfort zone and not go out to meet other people.</p>
<p>You don’t (and shouldn’t) have to be attached to the hip with your friend, but it is nice to know that when you go back home you have somebody who you are comfortable with. I’ve talked to my counselor about this, and she said that it’s important that although you may be friends with someone, you HAVE to set clear boundaries. If it seems that these people you may room with won’t, then I suggest you live on your own.</p>
<p>anyhow, I’m not in the same position as you are (incoming freshman here), but these are just my two cents.</p>
<p>Were they friends or random roommates? I guess my question is out because apparently my friend doesn’t want to get a place together for some reason which i can’t figure out but that’s okay.</p>