Hi! So I’m not exactly the most experienced in this but I’m choosing some schools too and even though I’m not going through the thought process you guys are having I do have some tips if they help at all!
Talk her through it, what does she want to focus more on in the future? Maybe she’s really good at lacrosse and that school has a great lacrosse team. You might have to be willing to give up one thing for something that she really likes or excels in.