Big vs. small, single gender vs. coed - Has anyone else struggled to choose?

With both schools being so evenly matched in terms of pro/cons, at least you can be confident in whichever school she is most comfortable at after her revisit days. Just think, it would be a whole lot worse if you felt one didn’t measure up and that’s the one she picked. While I like your list of important items approach, maybe she should wait until after revisit days to make her list, let alone complete it. There are so many things you don’t think are important until you see or experience them. As you know they measure up academically and in terms of ECs, she might find totally different things she finds important after her visit.