Let me raise my hand and point out that I quoted Richard Sherman, who was called a thug, as saying that thug has become, in a way, the new n-word.
I actually think that Sherman has a point.
Of course, the word has been in use in English since its origins in British India. But just recently it has been applied to black men in a way that I noticed, independently of Sherman’s statement, which I actually found because I was looking him up to make sure that I had the right guy.
There are lots of words out there that everyone knows but rarely use. All of a sudden, some phrase or term will be picked up, and it seems as if one hears and reads it everywhere. The media, especially the lazy bad tv media, has a tendency to pick up terms and apply them over and over, amplifying this. I first really noticed this back in the days of the Tylenol poisoning cases: they all used one term–I think it was “tainted” --to describe the bottles of pills that had been tampered with. No one used “poisoned,” or “adulterated,” or any other possible term. There are other examples of this that I can’t think of right now because I haven’t had enough coffee. Suddenly a word that everyone knows but not many people use starts spreading. You here it everywhere. I think this has happened with “thug.” I read something within the last few months in which a woman reported being started when a friend used the word “thug” in what was evidently supposed to be an affectionate manner to describe her baby boy, who was black.
I can think of another example. When I lived in England in the 1960s, one never heard the phrase “over the moon.” I mean never. When I returned circa 1980, this had become the stock phrase of interviewees to describe happiness.
It is my perception that this has happened with “thug.” (It also happens to have a very strong, satisfying sound, especially when expressing contempt.)
As for Grundy and the FB argument, I read the piece on Arquette’s speech that they were discussing. I really think that the author of the piece was wrong when she said that the actress was intentionally or unintentionally referring only to white women. I think she was reading something into it that wasn’t there. There is certainly a way in which the person’s comments could be viewed as derailing. If the conversation is about women of color suffering, there is something to be said for not saying, “Hey, I’ve suffered too!” Nevertheless, Grundy’s response was vicious. She went way over the top. It really seems that she has a hatred of all white people that is at a constant boil just under the surface.