<p>Xiggi, your comments on writing are interesting. Two weeks ago, D invited me to campus for dinner as she planned to work very late and I’m a free meal. Every time I go to her school, I feel as if I’m in a magical, wonderful place - stepping onto that beautiful campus, I feel like I’m on sacred ground. Anyway, we’re sitting outside, and I’m enjoying the beauty of the place and the pulse of life, and I asked her “are you happy you chose this school? Are you satisfied with your experiences here? how do you feel about all of your decisions, and your accomplishments? did you get your money’s with, and are you pleased how you used your time here?” etc.</p>
<p>I expected I would hear something like “this was the perfect school for me” or “I’ve had a great time, made awesome, life long friends” or some such thing. I was in this rather nostalgic mood, as her undergrad time is coming to an end, so, I was sort of expecting a response that matched my mood. </p>
<p>What she said instead left me sort of speechless, and it went something like this: “I wish I knew how to read and write. If I had a ‘do over’ at all, I would have prepared for college a LOT more seriously - starting back in junior high school. I would have worked very hard on my reading comprehension and writing skills. I wasn’t at all prepared for college, coming here. I have lost opportunities in my education, and failed to take the best possible advantage of the learning opportunities in my classes because my reading and writing skills were not and are not anywhere near good enough for college level work”. </p>
<p>Then she wraps this up with “but the good news is, at least I know it, and I’m doing something about it, so, when I get to grad school, I will be better prepared. But I feel sorry for my friends who are graduating. They don’t even know they cannot read and write, and for them, grad school is going to be…” I cannot remember the rest of what she said after that. </p>
<p>This, from a young lady who in high school earned 5 - AP English, 740 on the verbal section of the SAT, single sitting, and has a college gpa that ranges somewhere from a 3.4 to a 4.0, depending on how one slices the combination of the two degrees and four minors. </p>
<p>Being the parent, all I could think of was, hmmm, 12 years of private school, then five years of college, in cold cash we’re talking about approximately
$250K, not to mention the investment of 17 years of time, and she tells me “I don’t know how to read and write”. I couldn’t think of a thing to say except something really lame like “I will support whatever you wish to do next”…</p>
<p>I have no earthly idea what anyone should do to solve that particular problem. I don’t know if the issue is in curriculum, or in the effort of the student, or both.</p>