<p>Getting into college is not a good reason to go to boarding school, but boarding school is a wonderful, growing experience for a certain type of kid. If possible, I’d suggest you pick a handful of schools and go out and visit with her, while letting her know that you aren’t committing to anything. You may be surprised at what you experience. We went to a parent open house when my son was in 8th grade and all came away thinking how much better boarding school would fit his needs and personalities than anything near our home. And it has - it has truly made him a better, more responsible, harder working, more thoughtful, and more independent person. His day to day interactions and relationships with teachers, coaches, and other mentors has matured him in a way that being at home would not. So, I’d say you should keep an open mind, but you both need to be on board (no pun intended) if she were to go. </p>