<p>My anecdote…My last two years of h.s. I had a serious bf from my town who was two years older and went to a college an hour away. He came home to see me every weekend. We talked constantly about me following him to college and how wonderful it would be.</p>
<p>So I did it…only applied to his college…and off I went in Aug. My Mom was not happy about it at all but did not try to dissuade me.
At first it was bliss but gradually things started going downhill. The relationship had to be on his terms.<br>
I had to be available when he wanted me to and make myself scarce when he wanted to do something else regardless of my feelings. Neither of us were happy. He broke up w/ me the week of Fall semester finals. Best thing that ever happened to me.
If it’s meant to last it will and if it’s not, it won’t.</p>