<p>If he is as big of a looser as you seem to think, he will flunk out of this top school anyway so what’s the worry? (total sarcasm)…</p>
<p>Maybe he is just shy? You said yourself he doesn’t have any money. I couldn’t imagine NOT paying for a boyfriend/girlfriend of one of my children when we took them places whether he has money or not. I have to agree with the others, it is a class issue you have with this boy if it were just a motivation factor you wouldn’t have added information about his home life, how he never pays for anything, etc.</p>