<p>mcat…</p>
<p>Does it matter either way? I guess if your son finds this girl odd, then it would matter. (but who would have an odd person set them up???)</p>
<p>If this girl is normal and there could be an attraction, then why not agree to the “set up” and find out what’s what?</p>
<p>If this girl really is secretly setting herself up, what is she going to do? I guess she might say that the “3 of us” should meet at X restaurant for dinner at 6:00. Your son and this girl arrive. The girl pretends to get a text saying that the “friend” will be late so go ahead and order. So, the girl and your son have dinner. At some point, another phony text about the girl not being able to come. lol …if something like that happens, my concern would be that your son would have a real schemer on his hands. </p>
<p>But, if when your son asks to be set up, the girl suggests that they go out, then…well…if he’s interested then he should go.</p>
<p>Is your son a “late bloomer”?</p>