<p>The only concern I would have is what his response would be if they break up… potential stalker? or other problems. First loves can be intense, and when kids are getting their whole identity through another person, that’s a problem.</p>
<p>I would add to that… talk to your daughter about the situation. Not judgementally… but find out if she is happy about the move or if it is stressing her. If she doesn’t want him to come with her, then help her to have the courage to tell him. If she does… then I agree 100% with others to just stay out of it and parent your own child.</p>