Bring it up or leave it alone?

<p>^Chex Mix with that special sauce on it? I love that stuff!!</p>

<p>Also, @52677747 - Just… go play in the corner mmkay? We all know you hate gay people, you don’t need to announce your homophobia on every gay-themed board. It’s getting a little offensive.</p>

<p>On second thought… leave Mr. Corner alone, otherwise Crona won’t have anywhere to go</p>

<p>Thanks guys. I think I’m going to just tell them but plan it so that it’s not awkward or offensive. I rather know now if they do or don’t have a problem so I could plan accordingly. Rather safe than sorry. </p>

<p>Thanks guys :)</p>

<p>@Itachirumon Wait, what? Where in any of my posts did I say that I was a homophobe? I was just suggesting to the guy that since he’s going to live with these guys for a little bit that it shouldn’t be that big of a problem just to leave it alone. If I end up living with strangers for 2-3 months, I’m not going to share every aspect of my personal life just to appease their stay with me.</p>

<p>^Eh, excuse me, I could have sworn I’ve seen posts by you elsewhere that were more explicitly homophobic. If you made them, they’ve been removed. Perhaps I confused you for someone else, and if I did I apologize</p>

<p>But 52677747 that’s the thing. I’m not living with them for 2-3 months. I’m living with them for 9 months. I’m talking about rooming with them for the next academic year, not the remainder of this year. I don’t want to feel like I have to hide who I am.</p>

<p>Oh, I misinterpreted, Im sorry. Its up to you to tell them but its still perfectly justified to leave it alone. People can keep stuff to themselves for years, i found out recently that my cousin really wasnt my cousin. Shes not even related to me and ive known her as my cousin for at least 17 years. Yes it was a shock but i still treat her as my cousin. What I’m saying is that even if they find out, sure they will be surprised but they have known you for so long that it doesn’t matter.</p>

<p>Well if you plan on being friends with them and having them be part of your life, then they should know. If you plan on simply occupying a room there and you simply want to coexist with them, they don’t necessarily have to know.</p>

<p>No worries 52677747. I see what you mean though. It’s a tricky situation for me.</p>

<p>RoxSox: I do plan on being friends with them. We haven’t hanged out much, but we all have the similarity of not clicking with our roommates. Plus the few times I did hang out with them, I enjoyed it. So I would say that I would like to be friends with them.</p>