A bit of background, I’m a freshman at FSU. I rushed, got a bid at a fraternity, and was a pledge for a few weeks, but had to drop because it was going to be too much money and time (I got like 5 hours of sleep all week and my grades were starting to suffer). After having my schedule booked with tailgates, parties, and socials for the past few weeks, however, I’m starting to get a little lonely with the prospects of not having any parties or anything to look forward to in the future. I’ve been getting really involved with a Christian organization on campus, but obviously that really isn’t giving me much of an outlet to find booze-soaked gatherings of horny young adults.
I was a bit of a loner in High School, mostly because I really didn’t put much effort into making connections with people. I’ve not had too many problems acquiring a small circle of friends outside of Greek Life since I’ve been here, but the problem is that none of them really enjoy partying all that much, and the ones that do are girls that just wait for guys to invite them to parties. I really want to start building a huge, diverse group of acquaintances that I can constantly rely on for weekend plans and hang out sessions. The problem is that I have no idea how to start doing this. For instance, I know I have to go to clubs and events and stuff like that and talk to people, but where do I take it from talking to them at club meetings to hanging out outside of it? I also have a bad tendency to get annoying and a bit needy with my acquaintances, so I need some safeguards against that as well.
Any advice you have would be appreciated. Thanks.
Also, if you’re an FSU student and want to hang out, shoot me a private message.