I was lucky enough to have been admitted to an ivy league school early decision. I was curious about the effect of my teachers and school on my current acceptance. I attend a strict boys military school, however, after my acceptance I have slacked off a bit. I constantly miss morning formation and am never in the correct uniform (always missing a few pins or wearing short sleeve wool on long sleeve wool days). I have gotten countless comments from the commandant and others about me “not deserving” my college, and they are pushing to ban me from graduation events. I think it’s a bit ridiculous, however, I am getting a little worried.
The president (Principal) of my school, who instructed ROTC at my future college, yelled at me today for slacking off. On top of all of this, I received a full 4-year ROTC scholarship, and I’m starting to get worried about the effect of my behavior. Could/would my school attempt to alter my future endeavors? I have heard of stories of teachers emailing colleges about student’s bad behavior, however that is not necessarily my case. I am not a bad kid. I am maintaining my grades, behaving in class, not drinking, doing drugs, ect. I’m just easing up on the uniforms and formations.
So basically my question is; can a teacher/principal/school faculty member’s word warrant a rescinded admission?
Maybe you shouldn’t ease up on the uniforms and formations.
But, to answer your question, I doubt it. The college accepted you–one mildly annoyed teacher writing a vehement e-mail won’t sway your acceptance, I don’t think.
Have some honor and do the right thing. This school helped you get in that fancy college. Show some respect and don’t put those staff members in that position.
Be a leader, regardless of whether it costs you anything. You will not regret it. You are better than this power play, “nanny nanyy boo boo, just because I can,” juvenile behavior.
Yes. Until you’re out of their world they have that power over you. In my opinion it would be ridiculous and petty for them to mess with your future, but that’s the unfortunate answer to your question.
I agree with Sherpa. You do not attend an ordinary high school. Your college will ask for and recieve mid year and final,reports. If they choose to, they can add information to those reports about your “lack of respect” etc…and if your college admitted you in part because of your school, they can certainly rescind if they believe the person they admitted is not the truly that person now. I would toe the line. Is it worth it?
IMHO I’d go a step further than just getting your act together, I’d go in to see the Principal. Apologize for your juvenile behavior and tell them you want to make them proud of you when you move onto the next chapter in your life (assuming you do want to do that).
I would be very worried about potentially losing the ROTC scholarship. Moral values and behavior are factors that the military takes seriously. Your poor attitude in high school may make the ROTC leaders question whether or not you would fit into the college program.
Adjust the attitude and make amends. Strict rules and dress codes are going to be a part of your life for quite awhile. You need to adapt and comply.
I agree. An immediate attitude and behavioral adjustment is in order. Don’t risk losing what you have worked so hard to attain. Finish strong and enter the new phase of your life feeling proud of your entire HS experience.
Acceptances are conditional on the admitted student maintaining good grades (a little slack is ok, failing or getting Ds is not) and not being suspended etc. An admitted student has to notify the college they are attending if there are any disciplinary proceedings etc. against them in between the admission decision and starting at the college, and also has to provide a final transcript.
We know students who lost their scholarship or acceptance because they were suspended for alcohol use at a school event. Go apologize, and don’t slip up again.
As long as you are not suspended you aren’t going to get rescinded. Taking away grad activities is something they 100% can do so if you (and your parents) are going to be upset about losing those then you need to do what you are supposed to be doing.