I am very sorry that this is happening to you. I would give it a couple days until the submission you just sent processes. At that point, you should be able to log back in and send a request to your wife. I was surprised this year when I did a test FAFSA because I was also asked to provide my H’s email address. We filed jointly, and I don’t understand why he would need to do anything - I don’t recall that from last year - but I didn’t do it so don’t know what he would have been asked (I just do the FAFSA so I know how it flows & can answer questions - kids are long graduated). But wait the day or two, go back in, and look at what’s being requested. Why your child can’t see it, I don’t know, to be honest. Again, check their account after your submission is processed - maybe it’ll pop back up.