<p>crazy88 - I don’t think anyone is condemning you for being indecisive…that’s only natural. But your other posts are available for all to see…so any comments about backups are there. </p>
<p>However, I don’t think this is the main issue. The issue is you expressed a strong interest in engineering and if engineering (other than biomedical or environmental) is truly a passion, UNC-CH would be a mistake. I don’t think anyone can assume you knew that UNC-CH didn’t offer engineering because you seemed to have a lot of questions about the scholarship program. Perhaps you DID know, but it wasn’t obvious from your posts. I think this is why eadad included, with his comments, an advance apology should there be any misunderstanding. </p>
<p>Also, of course, Admissions will not be upset if you attend another school. I don’t think anyone suggested that, so that should not be a worry. My d turned down full rides or near full rides at three good schools to attend UNC-CH. But it does, and it should, give one pause when turning down scholarships that are not re-awarded to others. It bothered our family greatly and that part of the process was a somber one for my d and for us. But, in the end, there is nothing that can be done. Again, I read nothing in any post that suggested Admissions would have an issue with your choice.</p>
<p>Please try to remember this. The only reason we, parents, bother to post is because we’ve been through this process with our own kids, we know the difficulty and confusion from first hand experience and we want to help. Others helped us and our kids, and we are now in the position to give back. Personally, I vowed I would spend one year posting to ‘pay it back’ for the year of invaluable advice I received. One of the most helpful to our family has been eadad; so I can definitely vouch for his good intentions.</p>