a bit to unpack there -
I think there is some overlap on the 2 days but we didn’t mind
I remember this thread that really holds up on some of your other questions
there is Greek life but mine did not partake as of now - so no comment
My D does like her professors - but small sample size so far. All of her classes are in person and other than math were 50 or fewer.
they give a realistic tour of the dorms - so you can decide - she doesn’t complain
she is very happy there - you can PM me if you need follow up