I hope I can get some advice here from anyone who might have experienced a similar situation. I am not getting a a good answer from our vets because I assume no one wants to make the wrong call and when they tell me it is my decision is not a good answer because I am not an expert.
A couple of months ago, DH found a kitten on the road. He brought it home because, it was quite small, it was near freezing and it was certain to get hit by a car. It’s eyes were full of goop and he was a bit of a mess. We cleaned him up, fed him and took him to the Humane Society the next day. Unfortunately, they had no space and were only willing to take the kitten but they would have to turn away another that was already on the way. We felt bad and asked if they could direct us to a low cost vet so we can at least get him checked out. It turns out the kitten had a respiratory infection, eye infection and ear mites. $200 later after some medication and a leukemia test (to ensure he was negative since we have two cats at home) we took him home, asked friends and posted on FB for anyone who may want a kitten.
We had no takers . We nursed the kitten back to full health. It turns out he is the most lovable, intelligent cat we have had so far. He and our dog have become good friends and play all day long. We decided at this point, we might as well keep him. We took him to our regular vet to get him vaccinated and we got the bad news that he had what sounded like a murmur. They let us hear it and it was a swishy sound. They recommended that he get cleared by a cardiologist before they would neuter him.
So it seems we are lacking in vet cardiologists in the area and they are very expensive. No one has quoted us an exact price but it is upwards of $500 for just the echo cardiogram. We cannot afford this type of medical care on top of the regular care. Plus, if his condition is really bad, we cannot neuter him. Thus, we could not keep an un neutered cat in our household. If we give him up for adoption, I can’t imagine that he will be adopted given the cost to care for a cat like that and the problems an un neutered cat comes with. If we take the chance and neuter him without knowing the medical condition, he may not survive the anesthesia. So we are caught up in a bit of a catch 22.
I have read that some of these cats with heart issues have very short lives, 2-3 years,while others live 10-15 years but medical care is expensive. That said, he is very energetic, very robust and has a very good appetite. He does not have the symptoms that are often described with the condition. We think he currently is about 4-5 months old.
Any ideas, recommendations, experiences will be helpful and in helping us figuring out what to do. We will talk to the vet this week as well but from the initial talk, it did not seem as though there were very many options.
