<p>I like the idea of making him see a counselor while in college. It’s not punishment. It might be useful treatment, and it might just be annoying (the torture method, which I prefer).</p>
<p>And we often see comments like this here:
We only know what you say about yourself and your family, and we draw conclusions about that–just as you did with respect to the OP’s family situation. That’s all we can really do.</p>