Caught son with pot again - what to do?

[Marian]

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I have a 30+ year old, and there would be a major problem if I found out he brought pot into the house. Or if my nearly 90 something year old mother did. Or a gun, or other illegal drugs, or an uninvited guest without asking first for more than a casual “come in for a moment”, and any number of other things.

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<p>Two adult members of your household cannot invite guests into their own home without your permission?</p>