OP, I think something is going to work out for you. I think you will have some good options.
I do agree with checking out Cooper Union. They are a top architecture program, and do have scholarships beyond just half.
I would also expand my search beyond schools that have architecture majors. For example, I have a friend who was just an art history major, but also took physics, calculus and art classes. She had no trouble getting into masters of architecture programs. You could also launch into architecture from something technical such as engineering.
Here is a list of the schools that give big merit for NMSF/NMF. These schools can act as financial safeties for you while you apply to reaches that may hit budget.Big merit NMF/NMSF schools and their specialties
Best wishes!!!