So this is going to be the first issue - because how can you pay for anywhere or anything?
Are there local community colleges where you could get in state tuition and live at home?
You could run the net price calculator for a meets need college - l put one below that is more likely for you than the top 20s- just to see how much they say you’d have to contribute.
Parents not contributing and the is not the same as a school saying they can’t afford to contribute - so find out what the school says by filling in an NPC.