$180k is considered a lot of money. Some but not all meets needs schools, will likely help. But not to the level you need. And you may not be competitive at some statistically. Check out schools like Union, Connecticut College.
Truth is, education is an expense and investment and schools expect someone with that much money to pay something.
Here’s another thread that breaks down possible discounts/merit but I don’t see how they get cheaper than Rutgers lining alone outside of some competitive scholarships.
I’ve also reattached the schools that meet need list and a few others to look at.
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