You can only go to one school and if you truly want Chemical Engineering which is what you’ve been posting about, none of those schools worked anyway. And yes, a Chem engineer from U of Arizona or UMN is going to make more money (most likely) then a Chem major from any school you are looking at that just rejected or WL you.
I don’t think money should drive the decision but clearly based on your list and tone to reactions, rank and not what you want to study did drive your application list.
If you truly want to be an engineer, you are in a great position. And that’s where your application focus should have been.
If you can afford to go to Holy Cross and you decide to go there, it’s a wonderful opportunity. but unless you go to the rare 5 year (3/2 with Columbia) which will cost you a year of earning (say $80K+ today) and another year of tuition, there’s no reason to go to Holy Cross.
Now, if you pivot and you say - I don’t want to do engineering - then that’s different.
Think about what you want to do - and UMN for example is one of the top ChemEs in the country.
What I’m trying to say is you’re way too hard on yourself - and in reality, you applied to schools you shouldn’t have or you didn’t for the right reason (assuming ChemE is the goal which is what you’ve stated) as recently as a WL at UCI for engineering 8 days ago.
So - while people take what I’m about to say the wrong way - I’m glad you’re not getting into schools that wouldn’t be right for you. No one should attend a school that doesn’t offer their academic interest - especially something as “focused” as engineering.
We’re not talking about finance vs. Econ or English vs. Journalism.
Other than maybe physics or physics/math, there’s really not a sub for engineering.
So focus on - not the rank - but on who can give you the education and lead you to the high initial paying career outcome - that will happen as a ChemE - that doesn’t necessarily happen at these other schools in the liberal arts.
If you said, I want to major in Chem, I get it - but you’ve been clear in your public apps, you want ChemE - so go forth!!!
And again, you’ve got so many positives - affordable and at great schools - be proud instead of worrying about decisions from schools that likely don’t fit anyway.