I am a lone contrasting voice, but in looking at your information and the generally available historical data for admissions to HYP - I would say you have a chance, albeit not great, at being admitted to a top 5 school. From the current year’s cycle, which was probably for most Ivies the most competitive ever, I would say, apply ED to either Yale or Princeton, but not Harvard. As a violinist, you’d probably enjoy Yale a bit more than Princeton, but all 3 are a crapshoot. Realistically, it may be true that most East Asian applicants to these schools tend to have close to perfect academic indices. But yours is not far off the mark. Hopefully your class rank is similarly very high.
It’s true that being an accomplished classical string player is common for Asian applicants, but this would be like saying being an African American athlete is commonplace and boring - this is simply the nature of the personnel and no need to downplay it. Just as elite colleges need to fill their cheer leading squad, sports teams, and student governments, they also desire highly to fill their respected student symphony orchestras, and student musical theaters with quality talent yearly. Your CV should probably focus on your 3 major areas of excellence: your musical performance or your geography interest foremost, and add a governing experience section highlighting your interesting work with city and student governments - just a bit of organizing of your CV would bring this together. I think your scores are perfectly fine, your GPA, SAT I & II - they will not hurt you, even at the HYP level. I would downplay the AP portions - just mention the "5"s you make moving forward. Make sure you have outstanding references (don’t ask teachers who aren’t detail oriented and that you’re not sure loves you). Spend a lot of time writing an entertaining essay they humanizes you.
The factors that make your chances good: you have been deeply involved in several interests, and attained excellence in at least 3 of them. You are an outstanding musician, something a school like Yale especially would treasure. Your SATI&II,GPA are good enough to pass the initial filter (that’s all the AI is really good for). Your application will likely be opened by any of the 3 if you apply ED, and once opened, the remainder of your application is what matters.
I can see your predicament - you haven’t won an Olympic medal, nor are you an All-American, as many here have said, but you wouldn’t want to throw away your one great shot at a top 12 school; you want to feel that you took a shot at the best in a once in a lifetime opportunity. Certainly it sucks to be Asian when it comes to applications, because each of the top 12 schools like to cap their Asian demographics at about 20%. I say go for it. Try for the dream school, knowing your odds of being accepted are rather low at about 12% or less. Who knows, perhaps someone may empathize with you and advocate for you at the table. Nobody knows what personnel a Harvard, Princeton or Yale might need in a given year - it could be your unique grouping of talents. But be realistic. Expect to be rejected ED. This is the nature of the top 3. Go ahead and apply to 8 or so other schools you can wait on RD, all of which you can see yourself being happy with. Come next April, you’ll feel that you gave it your best shot, even if rejected, just know that you’ll be at a great school.