OP- kids who like Yale generally like Wesleyan, Rochester, Skidmore, Bryn Mawr, Vassar, Wellesley. Take a look at these. None of them are safe, admissions wise, but they are usually easier admits (statistically. Nobody can predict an individual’s chances at these “holistic admit” schools). Do you need to be close to home due to your dad’s illness? If so, do you have a couple of schools within an easy commute?
Hugs. I am in the unlucky genetic club of TWO parents with Alzheimer’s, so I know how challenging your life has been.