Wow - you’ve got a lot going on. Congrats.
Grinnell is a great school but if you took off W&L and Williams for being rural, I’d remove Grinnell too. Perhaps a Macalester would be a fair sub. And if you like Swat, how about Haverford? If you like Bryn Mawr but want cheaper, how about Agnes Scott?
Bama’s great scholarship is for NMF - you’d get 5 years tuition, four years housing and a stipend - which would cover food - just about.
U Tulsa is a smaller and fine school - they give big for NMSF. It’s four years tuition and housing. It’s a great school - where kids that don’t get into a school like Rice consider.
Just curious, why did you drop Emory? It seems to fit with a Vandy, along with Wash U, Rice, and Emory - which has the Woodruff Program.
Did you look into Charleston and the Fellows? Two of my daughter’s co hort mates - one did research for a year and now is at Gtown in the SFS for a Masters and I think is hopinig for med school. Another did a Masters at Oxford and is now at Harvard Law - so they’ve put together great outcomes - because the students are top notch.
In the end, if you can go to an expensive name - that’s great. But I don’t think it matters for law school. The top law schools enroll kids from hundreds of colleges. That you’re a stud will be what matters.
If mom and dad have the cash, then great. If they just have belief that going to the big name matters but it’s goingto cause them to struggle, then not great.
One thing for sure - you have options.
And I get - you can’t apply everywhere - you won’t have time. But there are so many options.
Thanks for coming back.
The problem, honestly, with you applying to so many is you’ll have choice - lots of them. And choice is always difficult but it’s a nice problem to have 
Good luck.