Since you put Michigan the avg for lsa is 3.93 unweighted with 32-35 Act. A bit higher for engineering.
So your competitive if your numbers are correct with the 95,000 applications.
All the schools you listed are reaches for everyone. What are the safeties you have listed that she would enjoy going to like your local public?
You have to list “other” schools you researched otherwise you will get a hodge podge of schools.
Does she want large schools, small schools, urban, etc etc.