As a disclaimer, I already have other colleges, so I’m not including them simply because I want to know my realistic chances at the super elite schools, and if there’s anything I can do to increase my chances (such as retaking SATs, taking certain APs, emphasizing certain aspects in essays/activities, etc.)
I’m looking for my chances for Harvard, Yale, Princeton, Stanford, and MIT.
The average at my school of the student accepted is about 96 across the board, and the lowest is around a 94 (one year there was a 93). I have just above the lowest, but that doesn’t make me feel any more confident about my chances. To be honest, I suffered from a slew of mental and health problems freshmen/sophomore year (anorexia, bulimia, anemia, arrhythmia, amenorrhea), my parents almost divorced, I lost a close relative, we moved to a new city, I took on WAY too many extracurriculars as distractions from these pains, I had to take on menial work for a few months to support my families when both my parents lost their jobs, and I seriously and afraid of the impact that’ll have on me. 
My guidance counselors have told me that I basically have no chance at these schools unless I seriously improve, and I’m really looking to see what I can do. Any help would be appreciated!
[Also, I’ve blurred some information, but the stats are all the same.]
Background
Gender: Female
Ethnicity: Asian
School: Public (4000)
Stats [should I retake these? If I end up with AP scores of 5 for the five I’m taking this year, will it help?]
GPA: 94.43
AP: Biology (4), Environmental Science (4), Psychology (4), Chemistry (3), European
History (4), Physics C: Mechanics (?), Physics C: Electricity & Magnetism (?), Computer Science (?), Calculus BC (?), English Language (?)
ACT:
SAT: 2290/2310 superscore
SAT II: Biology-E (770), Chemistry (730), Math-II (780)
Senior Courses: AP English Literature, AP Macroeconomics, AP US Government, AP
Statistics, Nanotechnology, Multivariable Calculus, Differential Equations, C++ Programming, Mobile App Development, Software Development, Existentialism, Skakespearean Acting
ECs
Columbia University
Research Assistant
Google Science Fair Finalist, Siemens Semifinalist
I-SWEEEP Finalist, EUCYS Finalist
ISEF Finalist, local science fairs and competitions
Key Club
District Webmaster
District Secretary
Divisional Secretary
Chapter PR Committee Chair
Internationally Distinguished District Officer
Raised $10K for Eliminate Project
Prudential Spirit of Community - National Finalist
Christopher Columbus Award
Online student-run publication
Editor-in-Chief
Founder of campus chapter/liaison
TEDx speaker (3x)
Panelist for 2 international conferences, 2 national panels
Outreach Liaison - connecting schools around the country
AspireIT Program (middle school computer science after-school club)
Founder
$3K grant
Pitched and won grant at local fair
Several features in local/statewide/national media
School hackathon
Director
Affiliated with MLH
Raised $10K from sponsorship
DECA
State President + Officer (3 years)
Chapter President (3 years)
Captain of VEX Robotics Team [unrelated, but the clubs are the same at my school, idk]
National HS Student of the Year
Won National DECA awards
Governor’s distinction - basically helped approve a declaration and charter
Varsity Badminton
Captain and starter
Manager for boys Varsity team
Instructor for academy (outside of school)
County-wide champs, statewide runners-up
Ambassador for the same academy
Shakespeare at the Park/modeling agency
Ambassador and playwright
Actress and voice acting
Fillmmaker and model - appearances on national TV, print media, magazines, stock photos
Scholastic Art & Writing Gold Key + Gold Medal
YoungArts Finalist
JSA/Young Dems of America
Chapter Director of PR
Regional Director
State Director of Media
Marketing intern for UN-affiliated NGO
Best Speaker for winter congress, fall state
Internship with small-ish startup
Worked on developing backend for their account-management and data handling service and UI/UX for their mobile application
Awards
I listed a few of my awards below their respective ECs, but here are a few that I couldn’t place anywhere:
Thiel Fellowship Finalist
USABO Semifinalist
USNCO Semifinalist
USACO Gold
USA(J)MO Qualifier
USAPhO Semifinalist (or qualifier, I’m not sure of the distinction for this one)
National Merit Finalist (I got a perfect score on my PSAT, so I’m sure of this)
Published book (published with a small-ish publishing house in NYC, won a few awards)
First/second place at hackathons (3, specifically)
AP Scholar with Distinction
Moody’s M3 Challenge - Semifinalist
Award at Global Maker Faire
Presented at the White House SF
Accepted to RSI
Also, my intended majors are computer science, graphic design, and possibly electrical engineering.
I think you have a good chance.