Unfortunately, there seem to be some students that reach out for advice/suggestions/predictions and when they don’t get the answers they want, they tend to get defensive and/or make excuses rather than listening to the advice. No one here has a crystal ball but they do have experience and are happy to help out.
You have some nice looking activities and maybe your letters of recommendation and essays are top notch and maybe they will help you IF your application doesn’t get put in the rejection pile for gpa, class rank, and lack of test score. Not having a test score wouldn’t hurt you if you had the grades and rank but they really are outside the range that tippy top schools want unless you are an Olympic athlete, patent holder, or your parents are big donors.
No one is going to tell you that you absolutely cannot apply to these schools. They are cautioning you that they are extreme long shots. These schools turn away more qualified applicants with perfect grades than they accept. Applying REA or ED will not help in my opinion because they do not compensate for shortcomings (no admissions worker will view a 3.59 as the same as a 3.75 just because it is early). The vast majority (over 90%) at Harvard are in the top 10% and have a 3.75 or higher and they get over 40,000 applications for 2000 spots.
Please do yourself a favor and find schools that would be happy to have you. I am sure there are plenty!! And feel free to apply to one or two of these as super reaches.